Moved on and accept the fact

                    Relationships are not permanent no matter how hard you try to keep it and work for it. Even though you are always thinking that you can cope up together when hindrances come along to block your way, there are some instances that will give you the reason to realize that it's over and there's nothing you can do but to give up.How are you going to hold on still if the feeling is gone? And with this, the process of MOVING ON will come along you're way.

                  The following are some of my insights on how to take yourself out of the blue and how to start living your life to the fullest:

    1. Let go of the feeling.

                 If you think that it's not worth fighting for

      then why fight? Let go of the feeling and accept the fact that

      it's not meant to be.

2. Never took pity of yourself.

                There's nothing wrong with you nor with him my dear! It's just the fact that something goes wrong with the process. It's not the fault of anyone. Don't pity yourself because I do believe that you yourself can do so much better.

   

  3.Make yourself busy doing the things you love.

                Being busy is one of the ways on how you can

escape from thinking what was happened. Do some funny

things that will make you forget the pain and make it an

everyday habit.

4.Forgive him or her.

               Forgiveness is the cure of all hatred. If someone hurt you and makes you feel so blue, forgive him with all your heart in order for you to live freely and throw away all those anger deep inside your heart. Forgiveness is also one of the ways on how you can forget and accept everything that happens in your past relationship.

 5.Lessen your contact with him or her.

               Even though number 4 gives you the advice to forgive the person who cause you to move on, its not necessary for you to still join and be with that person because it will only gets you in to confusion. Forgive him but lessen the contact because it will lead to confusion and there's a tendency that your feeling for him will return.

   

6.Be with friends.

      Being together with your friends which always gives a pieces of advice whenever you have some problems and hardships will help you feel better. It's always nice to have a shoulder to cry into. No matter how hard it is for you to laugh when you're in a heartbreak stage, when friends are there to make you smile, you will forget your problems because you will be on your state of happiness together with them.
   7.There is someone out there that is meant for you.
        Everyone was created with it's own destiny. More so  we are created by our almighty God for someone that was meant for us. Maybe it's not the right time to meet him or her but the right time will come that and you will finally get close to that someone. But as of now, enjoy celibacy while you still have it because once you are taken, there is no way for Ctrl + Z.

    8.Remember that we have a big God!
               God doesn't want us to suffer. Every single thing that was happening to us has it's purpose. Whenever we experience sufferings, just think of God because God is love and he is in control. God loves us and he wants us to ba happy but come to think of it, life will never be that colorful without trials. So lets praise the Lord for he was the one who will never leave us. Be thankful all the time.